Thursday, June 09, 2005

The Difference Between Feeling Grim & Being Grim

12:07:17 | 09.06.05

GRIM.
Not such a comfort zone. At times it manages to tear you down and make the inner soul in us feel so empty. Grimland is where it is really heading for us by then. It is detrimental that we understand it as some kind of a dark force, pulling us away from feeling the simplest pleasures of life.. at times. Its also a form of negativity that can affect those in our surroundings, in the way that we communicate and involuntarily pass on the grey vibes across our body's bubbles.. and that can mean we are worse off. Sometimes, we tend to forget that we are wearing an invisible coat.. that bubble around us, when we walk around & talk & make gestures to others. This bubble is what is perceived as our true/imaginary perception to the rest of us..
To the guy behind that counter, some day we look so frail and fragile - even though we are sporting the latest & coolest gear out of our wardrobe, to force ourselves looking better albeit us feeling already bad deep inside..

But there is a difference between feeling grim and being grim..

Being grim is whn we are already on that spiralling trip.. a bit like "Alice tumbling down the rabbit hole". That can be pretty saddening & its even worse that we seem to lose control..
The trick is (I think)..
to know when Grim is coming knocking..
& when it shows its face, we have to quickly turn it into a costume.. a bit like having a raincoat..so that it becomes only a part of something we wear..
hence we ARE merely FEELING it.. rather than BEING it..
Its ok to feel it.. Its much better than being it.

So..
Today, I believe I have found some new ways for me to deal with Grim.. and maybe protect my precious self from going tumbling down forever..

Im off with me greyish grim raincoat.. taking it out for a spin.. so I shall let the Surya Sunshine breaks it.. & let me have more positive vibes to be my true self again..
;))

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

heyya you GRIM-wearing raincoat you! =)


don't, or better still, NEVER wear GREY!!! =)

wear YELLOW! wear RED when you wanna paint the town! wear BLUE and everything is nice.. but not GREY!

grey is england when it rains.. and everyone has to stay in! =(


grey is wan... "wan"? hmmhpph.. sounds so much like part of someone's name / nickname...

let's take "wan" out.. let's not be in between black and white ... let's not be colorless... not grey.

let's not be grim. and start to grin. at every li'l thing that's worth the beam!


=)


cheese on toast, anyone?

blue skies & everything's nice...

=)

nadya.s said...

dude,
hope its not to late to say..
welcome to the blog-world!

cheers mate!